There’s a balance to being Empath who has psychic experiences and yet tries to be remain objective to what is going on.
To say that I’ve had more than my share of interesting experiences would not be an exaggeration. To say that many of these could not be explained away somehow would also be correct.
Some of them can’t. Some things that happened would require either a shared delusion, or timing and circumstances so contrives that it would make the most blatant Hollywood blockbuster script look disjointed by comparison.
I suppose it would be easy to ignore everything that doesn’t fit, but I also feel that would be doing myself a great disservice.
For instance, if someone tells me about having the same types of experiences as me, I need to consider if they had them before they met me or read any of my works, or if they arrived at the same types of conclusions independently.
Fact is: We, as humans, have a tendency to make stuff up, or change the facts ever so slightly to make it fit our stories.
I noticed this in my mother from a young age. She would adapt her stories and just put a small little twist into things to completely change the meaning.
She would tell you about her own psychic experiences, but only after she got your version. Then, mysteriously, it would match.
Or she would have the answers to puzzles that she claimed she already knew, but only after she was told the answers.
I never called her on these things, and really, I didn’t see the point to doing so, but it did make me very much aware of just how easy it was to make something into whatever you wanted it to be.
I do a lot of research and listen to sceptical podcasts because I learn a lot from them. (Plus, I find their observations hysterical at times because they are true.)
Problem is that it’s at the other extreme of the spectrum.
Where the true believer seems to accept everything they are told, the sceptic seems to refute anything they are told.
There just doesn’t seem to be a balance.
We need to be able to think critically about things. If something doesn’t seem to fit, look closer at it. It may not appear to fit because it does not fit.
Next: Fact or Fiction.
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One of the most difficult things about being an empath is the feeling of isolation and loneliness.
Most people you tell may not understand.
They may either think you’re crazy, dismiss you as a freak or look at your blankly, wondering what the heck you’re talking about. Some will even denounce you as working with the devil. For some bizarre reason, this natural state of being seems to be an abomination and sin in some cultures and religions. (And you could do a series of topics on this, but I’m not going to get into it today.)
Worse still is the feeling and doubt that you, yourself, might really be crazy.
A support network is something that could help a lot. Though, the web has a few groups that cater for other empaths, they are not always active and some of the people are not even empaths. I certainly think the time has come to start such a network.
One day, I imagine a worldwide empath support network with charters in every country. We’re not there yet, but I believe it will happen.
This blog is dedicated to the free sharing of information of being an empath and subjects in all their forms.
Some topics you will like and relate to. Some you won’t. That’s just the nature of blogs.
Also there are various chat rooms that are geared towards the psychic side where you will find other empaths.
The good thing about being an empath is that distance doesn’t make any difference. You can be on the other side of the world and your connection will be just as strong. So a support group is much easier to create than you might first think.
For now, I’m going to share some of the resources I’ve come across in recent times, but please, if you know more, feel free to add them in the comments. (And I will try and include them in this post.)
You can help by sharing this information, including this blog.
Resources updated September 2018. (Not as many as there once were unfortunately).
Continuing on from part one, these are the rest of the types of attacks you may experience, especially as an Empath or Light-worker.
Psychic attacks come in many forms and many ways. While not everything is an attack, it’s worth bearing in mind that if you are feeling depressed, drained, and all joy has been removed from your being that it might well be the reason why you feel this way.
Circumstantial Timing attack. (High level)
Events happen that seem contrived and unlikely to occur at the point of time. Murphy’s Law sums it up with: If anything can go wrong, it will at the worst possible time.
However, some things that go wrong are things that aren’t even connected to you, but circumstances make it so.
This occurs when you are trying to focus on something which is very important, or when you’ve got a dead line to meet.
As mentioned, I was under severe psychic attack for the most part of my first 40 years, and towards the end, I was doing everything I could to discover the source and end them. I noticed that every time I spoke to someone who could help me (generally online), things would happen which would demand my immediate attention. I would deal with the issue, and something else would immediately turn up. They were things that weren’t my responsibility; however they were thrown into my lap.
Resolving those attacks eventually led to a final show down, which included seven other people helping me.
Circumstantial timing attacks are not only very frustration, but are also high stress and high pressure.
Balking attack (Medium level)
Stops certain things, events from happening or people from doing things. This may be an agreement you’ve made that you need to be carried out or something that will impact negatively upon you.
One recent example that came to mind was in 2012, when I was moving in with my partner. We found the perfect house, in the perfect location, and with great landlords, who were going to be away for two years, which was the exact amount of time we were looking at for leasing.
My partner said: This is our house the moment she saw it, and it all fell into place. Then, at the last moment, the circumstances changed, and suddenly the land lord was only going to be away for six months.
My partner, to this day, is adamant that someone pulled some serious strings to screw this up for us. I happen to agree.
Direct attack (Medium level)
A physical manifestation of some kind such as noises or things disappearing or moving. I don’t experience those ones all that much, but they are used to either spook or freak out people. Normally used by entities. As it takes a lot to scare me, I rarely experience them. (Though, remember, objects disappearing can be also attributed to shifting timelines.)
Residue attacks (Low level)
These are like psychic time bombs. The attacker leaves elemental though-forms will affect people who are in its immediate presence. Often a sensitive can detect it as a tingling or an uncomfortable feeling. It may keep people away or even put them into a bad mood for no apparent reason.
Planting seeds of doubt (low level)
This is a very common attack. In fact, I’d say one of the most common as many are subject to it. They feel or hear voices in their head that are depressingly seductive and negative, often trying to convince the subject that they are a bad person and the world would be better off without them.
It is possible that more than one method might be used and that you could be attacked on all levels at once.
Still unsure what the low, medium and high meant, I decided to ask my guide.
Details noted below:
What are the levels? What do they mean?
You there?
Yes, what do you mean?
I mean the psychic attacks. They say low level, medium level and high level. What does that mean?
They refer to the energy involved in making the attacks occur. Some take more energy and time than others. High level indicates a lot of energy while low level indicates that a minimum of energy is required.
So they don’t have anything to do with astral levels?
No. Astral levels simply are places where they come from. Also, the higher an attack, the more expertise needed to make it happen. While low level might be deceptive in the way it’s named, it is still considered the basic attack which can be done by most.
Now we know the basics of those types of attacks, though no doubt there are more types. We’ll be looking at how to deal with them for the next entries.
One of the more useful abilities of being an Empath that I’ve found over the years is the ability to read people.
Now, this is a skill everyone has to some degree, and this can be seen in movies that have been well casted. You can immediately tell the type of person, and their personality, on sight. You know if they are a villian, the hero or someone who is sleazy.
Empaths can often take it a step further in real life, as they can see, not only the type of person they are dealing with, but how that person is likely to react, and if they are dangerous or not.
The Face
For instance, just by looking at a face, you can normally tell someone’s history, their personality, and their disposition. If they have suffered trauma, what their mood is, and so on.
There are books dedicated to how to read faces, but I never felt a draw to them and over time, I started to become more in tune and sensitive to what a face was telling me.
The Voice
A person’s voice also reveals a lot about someone. I know that when I pick up a phone at work, the moment the person speaks, I know if they are going to be demanding, friendly, difficult or clueless. Rarely I’m disappointed in what I am picking up, and can pre-empt a lot of issues by adjusting accordingly.
It’s generally in the tone, the pitch, the forcefulness, and the words which gives it all away. It’s not what they say, it’s in the voice they are using that reveals it all.
The Name
Even a person’s name will tell you a lot about their character. It is possible to pick up the vibration of names and sense the energy behind it. Names are very important, and you can change your personality by changing your name. People will also react differently to you, depending on what name you decide to go by.
I found these abilities developed naturally as I got older and gained life experience. There are nuances you come to recognize, and certain patterns that occur time and time again.
While I’m sure that anyone with experience can read people, I believe that there are levels that Empaths pick up that the average person does not.
The problem with most people is that they ignore this information. They dismiss it, figuring that they must be wrong, or if others can’t see it, then they are just imagining it.
Personally, I have felt frustrated time and time again because no one listens to me, or says, hey, you can’t say that without knowing someone. And yet, I’m rarely wrong.
When someone asks me for help, I often ask for a current photo as that tells me a lot, and a sensitive person will also see the energies connected to the person at the moment. And they will also see when the energies change. For instance, if someone is under attack, there will be a greyness around the face, but if it clears, the greyness will also go.
If you have the ability to read others, and you know you have it, listen to what you get. Trust in it. It could even save your life and a lot of distress one day.
Because they are vibrational in nature, they do not interfere with other medications or other forms of treatment. And by vibrational, I mean they heal on a level that is emotional / spiritual… and yes, I know that sounds newagey, airy fairy, castle in the sky stuff, but take me from me, it’s a fact.
They are easy to take.
They are cheap. One bottle can cost around 8 dollars if bought online, and can last for literally years. The use-by date generally is 10 years, though they can last indefinitely if the alcohol preserving them is good quality.
They work either ingested orally or rubbed on pressure points, such as your wrists. (wonderful if you can’t tolerate alcohol.)
The healing they provide is of a permanent nature. Once you are healed, you stay healed, until life and its events distresses you again.
While they are designed to be easy to self-diagnose, the skill lies on knowing what the cause of the problem is. That is not always obvious. Experience and knowing oneself is the key here.
They work on plants, animals and children.
They are a complete healing system.
They can work within moments. The more you take them, the more attuned you become, and the quicker the results.
The only downside is that you cannot mix too many of them together at once. Conventional wisdom says that you should not mix more than seven at a time.
I say that four is optimum, and they should be remedies that complement each other.
The good news is that I discovered that you can break the seven remedy limit if you take them one at a time instead of mixing them. There is no limit to how many you can use them.
Not only can you cure depression, but you can cure other conditions. For instance, I have used them to stop asthma.
The theory is that by treating the cause, you heal the problem.
Dr. Bach said: Treat the patient, not the dis-ease.
Personally, I don’t think I would be able to function without them in my life. They have pulled me from the brink way too often, and I’m sure it would have taken years of intense therapy to otherwise recover.
As I said, I will cover them all, but in the meantime, if anyone has questions, please ask and I will answer them.
There’s a balance to being Empath who has psychic experiences and yet tries to be remain objective to what is going on.
